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[quote=Anonymous]Your mother should not be staying with you for this long, given the dynamics you're describing. Don't allow that again. For now, be very direct. Mom, I understand you don't agree w/ lots of what I do and I'm sorry. But this is how I (and my husband?) have chosen to do things. You can either accept it while you're here, or you can go home. Repeat as needed. Mean it. Don't engage in any discussion you're not open to, don't lose your temper or feed her emotion at all, and DO run your household the way you choose. "I love you Mom and I'm sorry you disagree with my choices, but this is not negotiable. If you need to leave, I understand." Over and over.[/quote]
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