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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My spouse can use my phone, computer, etc. I have nothing to hide and assume the same with him. It's called being open books.

A secretive person means there are red flags.[/quote]

+1. I don't snoop, but I use his email, cell and computer occasionally. We have nothing to hide. I know all his passwords and he knows mine. [/quote]

+2.  DH doesn't know the password to my computer because he can't remember it, I've told him a bunch of times.  I've given up at this point and if he wants to use my computer, I just unlock it for him.  He uses the same password for everything so technically, I guess I could go look at anything on his computer if I wanted to.  We both give each other full access to our stuff but neither of us has the energy to bother with snooping.

We've both been cheated on in the past.  It took me a couple years to get over it and the whole situation really made me doubt myself (both my judgement and my self worth) and I knew I never wanted to be with someone I had to worry about cheating like that ever again.  Same for him.  We wouldn't be together if we couldn't trust each other, that goes for trusting each other not to cheat and trusting each other with access to our stuff.[/quote]

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