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[quote=Anonymous]Please go see a therapist if you aren't going already. I felt this way when I was in a deep, deep depression. I felt like I was a terrible person who was only causing pain to everyone. That everyone sincerely would be better off without me. I even had a suicide plan and fantasized about the amazing woman my husband would marry next who be such a better mom than I ever could be. I believed it to my core. Mine was post-partum depression that I got through finally after about 14 months or so. But I know the feeling. And you know what, you are the only mom your kid has. Your kid will need you, and need you to be the best person you can be. I cannot imagine the psychic pain a child must go through when a parent leaves, but please, please consider that you are not a bad person. Maybe some of the things you have done are not good, but that doesn't make you bad. It's not black and white. And if you go to therapy and perhaps consider meds, you will start to see that you can get better and can be someone who is an amazing influence on your child. [/quote]
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