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[quote=Anonymous]Your feelings are your feelings. Give yourself permission to feel whatever it is you feel. Given your background and everything, of course you feel that way. It's totally understandable.

The fact is that they are in a very honeymoon type period and things are certain to get more complicated and less rosy. Huge money does not lead to perfect lives, so remind yourself of that.

Your life is your life and her life is hers. This is a long game. And nobody knows how ANYTHING will really turn out. If lucky, you might get to indulge in some pretty great vacations/experiences/gifts. If so, great for you.

Maybe try to mentally mark one thing each night or morning that you love about your husband. What you focus on, you get more of so focus on gratitude for your situation. This is easier for some people than others, but you can work on this trait.

I applaude you for writing the post. The most important thing is not to diminish the importance or validity of your feelings - they are your feelings and they are valid simply for being your feelings. The more you fight them and deny them or apologize fro them, the more they will rule you.

You sound like a great person, honestly. I would be happy to know you. Good luck![/quote]

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