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[quote=Anonymous]This is sooooo going to end up in explicit.

OP, it sounds like your wife is very repressed sexually. I get that. A lot of people (not just women) are. My husband is insecure about his weight and it is all I can do to get him to have sex without wearing a shirt. Even then, he puts shirt and boxers back on pretty much immediately afterward. I have learned that this is just something I will have to live with, because until he loses 40-50 pounds (his numbers, not mine), he will not feel secure naked.

The pain issue, though, I think is different. If she is physically fine, then you are looking at a combination of psychological and technique problems. Are you guys using enough lube? Very important. If she is psychologically closing down, that's going to have real effects on the physical side of things.

I would say that you should talk to her about these things, but it sounds like your wife is in a position where she cannot have this conversation without getting upset. Is she depressed? It sounds like she is depressed.[/quote]

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