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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So she is saying that sex is physically painful for her, 8 months after having a baby?  Has she spoken to a doctor about that?  FWIW the less sex you have the more painful it is, but I realize that doesn't help you.[/quote]

She does not say so, but the wincing and tears (not kidding) say so.  She has seen the doctor and is all checked out and supposedly good to go.

[quote=Anonymous]This post is a little confusing though.  So you don't feel disconnected from her (emotionally, physically, whatever?)  Do you or do you not want to have sex with her to improve the relationship?  Or you just want sex for its own sake?[/quote]

I don't feel particularly disconnected emotionally.

I would like to have sex, but I'm really not attracted on a purely physical/visual basis; perhaps in that sense I am disconnected physically.

Because the dynamic right now puts the burden of bringing all the arousal and passion on me, not being particularly attracted is a real problem, even though I would like to have sex both for it's own sake and to improve the relationship. [/quote]

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