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[quote=Anonymous]DH is now in agreement.  He hadn't been thinking about how long that would feel from the point of view of a five year old.  I guess he needed time to calm down.

The offense is the worst thing so far on his little five year old rap sheet, although I understand why he was so upset. We frequent a water park with a slide.  He has been dying to go down the slide but hasn't been tall enough.  His last trip, he finally made it and spent the whole time on the slide. We decided to go again, he's all excited about the slide.  They said he wasn't tall enough and sent him down.  I told the lifeguard that he'd done it last time so she suggested he go up and try again and they said no again and he comes down the stairs sobbing his little heart out. Then he jumps in the pool right under where the slide emptied out and he's crying and yelling.  Lifeguard said he had to move and he would not.  She tried to persuade him and he swam away from her. She said if she had to go in to get him, he couldn't get back in. She had to go in and get him.

She passes him off to me and he keeps pulling away to try to run back into the pool. I'm hanging onto him on my lap while I'm trying to get my other child to gather our stuff and put on his shoes so we could leave.  The one I'm holding punched his brother and keeps trying to head butt me.  I had to carry him out of there yelling and struggling, leaving one child at the pool by a guard, wrestle him in the car seat, drive around and leave him in the front while I ran in and got my other child.  It was awful.  He disobeyed the lifeguard - huge offense by itself - tried to hurt me and his brother, and had to be carried out bodily.  What is the appropriate consequence?

Of course I understand why he was upset and I tried some "talk so your kids will listen" techniques at the pool that did not work at all![/quote]

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