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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would have an affair if there were kids involved or divorce if there weren't.

Truth be told, most people have no idea what it feels like to be sexually cut off from their spouse, so they wax poetically about cheating being the ultimate sin.  Much like a pro-life person who then changes their tune when their daughter shows up pregnant from the high school drop out.  [/quote]

This is why all cheaters are selfish jerks.  I don't know what its like to be cut off from my partner sexually.  I can imagine it really sucks.  However, its crystal clear that no one would like to be promised monogamy, especially after turning down an open relationship, only to find out their partner was lying and doing it anyway.

Its the same in any other context:  "Please don't take the 100,000 we have in our saving and spend on yourself without discussing it with me."
"I won't, hun."  They take the money anyway.  Can you not see how wrong it is to take the money because it was agreed that it wouldn't be taken?  Who wouldn't be hurt/furious in this situation?  Its the same with physical cheating.

This is why you work to improve the situation.  If it doesn't within a particular time frame, you ask for an open relationship.  If not granted, you divorce.  Its that simple.  Not easy, but simple.  The entitled assholes of the world don't see it that way because they want the best of both worlds.  [i]Their[/i]worlds.  Not their partner's, of course.[/quote]

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