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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] I let myself feel it rather than try to talk myself out of it or ignore it, but I don't let myself wallow in it. I've learned to tell the difference for myself. [/quote] This is the part I have difficulty with myself. I tend to wallow and get very depressed about it. How to you avoid wallowing?[/quote] Not this PP, but I actually do let myself wallow - for a set amount of time. If I find myself sad about it - and it happens predictably when I find out a friend is going to have a second or third baby - I let myself cry and moan and feel really, really sorry for myself. For a day. But I plan and expect that the bad feelings will ebb overnight, and they do. I always wake up the next morning feeling okay. Maybe a bit sad, but no longer wallowing.[/quote]
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