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Reply to "Found out that BIL was badly abused as a child and I don't think that my sister knows it"
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[quote=Anonymous]I don't see the value of saying anything unless he has exhibited signs of continuing the pattern. you may dredge up old wounds for him and actually cause a problem. it used to be more acceptable to spank your kids, the fact that the neighbors knew it was beyond that standard suggests it truly was terrible. What possible good could come of you bringing this to light? He is not responsible for the horrible way he was treated as a child. do you think he is abusing the children? I don't get it. Maybe his father was a terrible alcoholic at the time and went through treatment, etc. I just don't see why this story is relevant, and want you hope to accomplish by pushing it front and center. [/quote]
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