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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had a good friend who ended up divorcing her husband. She called me more then a few times in tears and angry because her husband refused to change. It had been that way for 10 years.  He had grown kids, and let them have their kids bday parties at their house without consulting my friend. She didn't want kids and all that at her house. The stupid daughter could do it at her place.  Horrible grown kids, and one he always gave money to. Paid her divorce lawyer behind my friends back.  Lot's of stuff like that.

I could only tell her what I would do. Call the daughter myself and tell her NO. Make plans that day and let the husband entertain them.  I also told my friend to sock money away he couldn't find since there were problems.

I guess after so many years the resentments piled on so she did leave him, but for another guy which shocked everyone. While married she set her profile pic on FB to her and her boyfriend. Yes while living with her husband...omg!  So all his family saw it since she was their FB friend. Of course there were more photos of them together.  She had a LOT of animosity, or enjoyed the payback to all of them.

If you keep doing something your partner is upset about it will eventually blow up in some way.[/quote]
I know this is off-topic, but your friend sounds horrible!  Even without that awful FB thing.  I wish that I had a second husband who had the nerve to tell me that I couldn't host my grandchild's birthday party at our house or who had a problem with me helping my kids.  They are better off without her.[/quote]

You don't plan parties at your house without first seeing if your spouse is ok with it. The leech daughter was too lazy to have it at her house, so was ok with all the wild kids messing up someone else's. And of course she didn't watch her kids well. Mind you this was a yearly problem with birthdays, Christmas, etc.  You don't pay for your child's DIVORCE lawyer who is in their late 30's. Are you kidding me?  Giving them large amounts of money when they need it so they can hopefully retire someday.  He also, moved his grown son and dil in WITHOUT asking my friend because they were having their new house built.  I guess they didn't want to pay rent somewhere.

Seriously all the stuff she told me was horrible, and disrespectful.  The FB thing was too much, but from everything I know I can understand it.[/quote]

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