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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Been dating for a year.  He is 35, I am 30.  He is good looking, smart, good job, owns his condo.  Has never been engaged or lived with a girlfriend.  [b]Has told me early on that he does not want children or to be married.  [/b]But . . . his actions say different.  He is warm with his friends' children, invites me over most weekends, we go on lots of trips together, and he is accompanying me to a wedding in a few weeks where he will meet my parents.  I think all this means he sees me as a permanent fixture, so do I go by what he says or what he does?  [b]I was annoyed because he knows my lease is ending and would never discuss the idea of living together, even when I hinted. [/b] Am I wasting my time?  W[b]hy would he bother being a good boyfriend if this won't ever go anywhere?[/b][/quote]

Why would you second-guess that?

And why would you want to live with him?

He is a good boyfriend because he likes you.  But that doesn't mean he wants a future with you.

If you want to be married and have  children, then move on.[/quote]

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