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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  I guess you all are right, but several of my best friends keep stoking the hope for me.  "oh, look, he did x, it means y."  I keep thinking, doesn't every guy claim not to want to get married/have kids?  But plenty do?

I'm dumb, I know.  Ugh.[/quote]

No, they don't. Guys who want to get married and have kids say so, and they say "with the right person."  I think your friends are trying to be nice to you.

None of his actions say he's changed his mind about marriage and kids. I'd almost say you should see if he'd talk about moving in together, but I have two problems with that. One, it's like you're begging him to let you live with him which is unhealthy for you. And two, moving in with him would just prolong this relationship where you keep trying to change his mind.

I would break up with him because of different relationship goals. Even if he said he'd changed his mind about marriage when you're breaking up with him, I'd be very distrustful. Really make him prove it. Having to beg a guy to marry you is not a good position for anyone. [/quote]

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