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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks everyone for your perspective. I won't get into the details, but this was not a straightforward I need some money and me refusing type of situation. I said I would do my best, I tried, and just could not make it happen.

I know they were very stressed out and that's why I thought we needed some distance.

I'll reach out to him and send a gift for the baby. I know it's the right things to do. Plus it would kill my parents.  But for what is worth:

1. One of the [b]charges levied was that I am polite on the surface and not really caring[/b]. So fairly certain this gesture will be seen the same.

2. My husband sent a congratulatory text and got no response back.[/quote]

I think what you are planning to do is fine. [/quote]

+1 Just fine. Per the bolded, it's not really your job to *convince* them that you care. Being polite is far more than what we see in most families! The perception and how they feel about it is their responsibility.

And hang onto the letter. [/quote]

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