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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Quit and find a new job.[/quote]

+1.  Get out of the toxic environment. Toxicity sucks the life out of you and life is so much better when you work with great people.  [/quote]

Op here.

I feel absolutely miserable and incompetent due to how he treats me. He is always laughing and joking with others and if someone screws something up he responds with, "it happens dont worry!" but with me it is " you are so unprofessional!" to " do you NOT know how to do this?!"

I'm humiliated and doubt my abilities.

I don't want to tell on him because itll be awkward.

So I'm stuck.
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You have 2 courses of action.  Either you have a conversation with him/HR or you leave.  Saying nothing and being miserable will eventually affect your health.  Awkwardness be damned. How big is your company? Can you do a sideways move into another team? Is there any openings within your company that you can move to? Have you documented how he is treating you? This means date, location, description of events, outcome etc. This will be invaluable if you speak to HR because they will realise you are serious.

Is there any merit in his criticisms? Are you doing good work? Do you get along with the team? If you are not delivering, he may be trying to move you out of the team/fire you.  If your work is good, then he may not like you and be gaslighting/bullying you to get you to move on.  So even if you resolve the bullying in the future he may not support you or give you good projects etc.

Finally, what would it mean to move on from this company? How quickly could you find a new role? What's the market like for your skill set? Be aware that even if you do talk with him/HR this may not be resolved to your liking and you may be best to start a job search whilst dealing with the issue.

GL, this is a shitty situation.  Weigh up your options and take action.  Go where you are celebrated OP, not tolerated. [/quote]

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