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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]1) He's bad news

2) The business dinner is not a problem.  Let it go.  You're expecting him to act like a married man when he's not. He kept you in his life for convenience while he acted like a single guy.  For a year and a half.  That's a huge problem.  Huge.

3) Have you done any therapy op?  I feel like you need to figure out why you want to make this relationship work after he acted so disrespectfully towards you for so long.  He has the mindset of a cheater. [/quote]

1) Yes, he is very selfish. 2) Yes it's a huge problem and I did not accept to work things out with him right away but said I was going to date other people which I did for a few months and met some great guys but he kept trying to get back in my life by sending emails, calling, and sending phone logs to prove he only called me. 3) I've never done therapy. Emotionally, I feel depleted. He had my trust which for me isn't easy to give to anyone. I don't lack self respect at all because I know I can do better than him but I am giving him a chance because I have seen couples work it out despite cheating. Relative was a serial cheater but his relationship is still going at 40 yrs![/quote]

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