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[quote=Anonymous]I don't believe any of the advice you are being given is going to help you.  I think it is all good advice in general for trying to rekindle passion that was once there.  By your description, your wife has never had what most people would consider a normal libido.

The good news is she is willing to have quickies with you/for you.  You say that is a result of your having a conversation.  What she is telling you by offering more quickies is that she loves you and wants to see you happy but she just isn't into sex or needs it the way you do.  (whether she would be more into sex with a new man is an irrelevant question unless you want to open your marriage).  You say she enjoys sex when you have quickies.  Great.  It's better than nothing.

You need to accept your wife is just really low drive.  Quickies are going to be as good as it gets.  That is the price of admission for remaining married to her.  It would depress me too, I don't think I would stay married/faithful under those circumstances.  But you are only going to feel more frustrated trying to fix her when she isn't broken, it's just how she is.[/quote]

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