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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm just flummoxed by her refusal to go on weekend getaways.  Not doing that tells me she takes sex avoidance to a higher level than just being low drive. Does she have a history of childhood abuse?  Or very conservative ideas about sex?  I think sometimes women never let go of the "good girls don't" mentality. [/quote]

She knows the real reason for the get away, lol; so that trick isn't going to work. Child abuse, conservative, seriously?

Let's say it the way it is and cut to the chase. She's not interested, won't ever be interested, and will do the shower thing to get it over with, that way she can do things that really interest her.

Think of it like this. I love math and expect my partner to want to do it with me once, twice a week. I can get pretty paper, give her a pill, take her away in hopes she's going to enjoy math like I do.  She's given me every hint, to let me know this isn't her cup.  That means I STOP trying to force her knowing how she feels.

Maybe just maybe down the road, she might initiate it sometimes.  [/quote]

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