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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]this post strikes me as just a cover for "buyers remorse" vent :([/quote]

Agreed. Maybe get some counseling so that you can talk things out in a safe place.  It's not fair to dump on your DH, presumably you knew who he was when you married him (In defense of him why would you expect someone who hates the city want to live there?)  Sadly I know a lot of locals who feel this way and no amount of -- DC is a great place and there are so many fun things to do-- could possible sway them they aren't budging on it.  If he doesn't want to spend 30 mins in the city going to HH after work why would he want to spend 24/7 there?

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I think the commute is a smaller issue to a bigger problem. It seems that you want to socialize and he doesn't.  There are a lot of personality and lifestyle choice issues here.  You two may not be that compatible.  What happens after you have kids...would you be okay with them inside all day and not socializing with friends?  My FIL was a control freak who hated socializing.  He did not let my MIL socialize either (raised a fuss whenever she goes to see friends, no friends allowed in house).  DH grew up not knowing how to socialize, but now he realizes the importance of socializing.  However, he just feels awkward going about finding friends and interacting with them.  So really think how you want your children to be raised.[/quote]

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