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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would do it at your home.

We did this for a parent.  We were in townhouse  replaced the dining room furniture with a medical bed. Our parent only lived a few weeks under care   Friends could visit all the time

[b]You will not want to drive to give care[/b] near the end

For your son it will be a live changing experience for the better

Difficult time to live through  the stress and pain can bring out the best and worst in your family.

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I'm a PP, and it's not about OP's driving convenience. It's about her mom's final days. Mom should at least have a vote, if she's able to, as to where she passes. OP can adjust to what her mom wants. If Mom can't communicate her preference, her HCP (probably OP) should decide what her mom would want for herself, not what is easier for OP.[/quote]

Death at home is not necessarily a painless, peaceful experience, despite all the hype about hospice.  I would think long and hard before inviting someone to die in my home when children are present.  Watching people moan and thrash around in agitation (not necessarily pain) can be very scary, and not all hospice nurses are capable of getting these symptoms under control.  I say this based on very recent experience.[/quote]

I agree with the PP.  Also a recent experience that was pretty awful.  On the flip side, my uncle passed quietly and without a lot of fanfare in hospice but you never know how it's going to go.  It can be nightmare-inducing and may taint how the child views their memories of the grandparent.  [/quote]

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