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[quote=Anonymous]I was in a relationship like this in my 20s.  I thought it was my fault because I was too inhibited or not allowing myself to be free spirited enough or hung up or some such nonsense.  I ended up with a tear in my vulva that took some months to heal.  We had sex regardless of the tear and he would say "That's not hurting, is it?" and pound on.  Like an idiot I would put up with the pain, because we were "in love."

OP, this isn't love.  It's not sex either.  You are being physically hurt.  And it's a vicious cycle because the more sex hurts the more your body is going to shut down during sex.  You are going to have less and less arousal and more and more dryness, tightness, and bodily upset -- nausea, diarrhea, and actual crying during sex.  And I can tell you that your level of anger is going to wreck your relationship.  How could it not?  Who the hell wants to be physically assaulted?

Either the two of you work on this as a couple -- making a plan -- or you don't have sex.

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