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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't want to leave him or break up the family or anything like that.
Things are good aside from this.

I do't know if he would go to counseling with me or not.

There's  a lot of things going on now. His cousin that he's close to is very ill and likely won't make it, his job has always been stressful, but I think it's stressing him out even more.
Sex is stress relief for him I know that and I'm ok with that it's kind of like that for me too, but it's never been painful.

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This is a huge issue though OP, I don't think you understand that. You shouldn't feel like puking after sex with your husband. The way he is treating you isn't okay. Disregarding your needs and feelings isn't okay. He's stressed out, but that doesn't excuse abusive behaviour. You wouldn't be okay with him verbally berating you or slapping you to relieve his stress, this is no different. You said before you feel objectified - that is NOT okay. You are not an object he can fuck to make himself feel better. You are his partner and a human being - he is failing to treat you as such. He could be the most stressed out person in the world, and this would still not be okay. [/quote]

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