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[quote=Anonymous]It sounds like your DH is feeling miserable about work, and taking it out on you at home. Mine does this too sometimes, and I also work FT and we have 3 kids, so it's not as if there is much relaxation for anyone. I would try to talk to him about his seeming unhappiness with work. Tell him your concerned for him, and ask how you and he could make the situation better. Maybe changing jobs is needed. Or maybe just knowing that if he wanted to change jobs, he could. You stated that you plan to start working again in the future. Approach this as a team, and if the team needs you to start working again sooner, that can be an option. Right now you both feel stressed and resentful. Instead of turning that on each other, try to be a team and figure out how to make the life you want. Even if in the end you decide to keep things as are, it can reduce resentment to feel like you chose the way you're living rather than fell into it. [/quote]
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