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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  To be honest, in addition to him becoming more negative (which he definitely has), part of the problem could be that I was depressed when we first got together, and am now happier on meds.  So maybe our worldviews used to be more similar (I was never mean to others, but always assumed the worst would happen, or that other people disliked me).  [/quote]

So you realize that something you had in common - negativity - is now gone. It is tough, but it can be done. Marriage is for the strong at heart that know how to adapt and change and grow. Through sickness and health. This is a time for work but you will reap the benefits later and have no idea how you may be building equity doe a behavior you may need in him when you reach another season in your life. Hugs OP it's tough.

Read books that talk about the power of being positive and intentionally constructing your thoughts. Then you can learn to identify destructive thoughts and patterns and it becomes much easier to navigate emotionally as a woman.

You have a lot going on. I hope you stay encouraged.[/quote]

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