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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, obviously, people have different preferences. You say that a woman's physique is not a dealbreaker for you, but I'm sure you also seek out the most attractive mate you can, don't you? We all do. Fortunately for those of us who are not conventionally attractive, different people are attracted to different things.

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OP here, when i was younger yes looks played a manor part.After some tome and dealing with attractive women and seeing their personalities sucked and also dealing with less attractive women who had wonderful personalities and treated me better that changed my mindset but i do get your point.[/quote]

I'm the poster you're responding to. I feel the same way about my ex-husband's income. I didn't marry him FOR his money, because when we married, he was a broke grad student like me. He was just in a more lucrative field. His money did not make him a good partner. In a lot of ways, it actually made him a less good partner, because he developed the mentality that you could solve problems by throwing money at them.

I think that people who rely on one asset (whether that be salary or looks or smarts or ability to make a mean whiskey sour or whatever) are generally not good bets. Life is long and complicated, and choosing a well-rounded partner is important.[/quote]

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