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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The baby doesn't hate your mother. I do think you might be projecting a bit of your own tension and feelings. Some people just aren't that soothing to babies. If she's willing to hang in there and try to bond with the baby, just try and work with her. Maybe her taking the baby when you're running around trying to get ready isn't the best timing for it. And I do kind of think the baby's associating her with you leaving. [/quote] nP. I had a similar situation with my MIL. The kids both did not bond with her a long, long, time, and I think it was because she didnt really believe in being very responsive. When I realized she was perfectly fine with our girls crying 20 mins or more, I just really reduced using her for chil care. One the kids reached preschool age, things improved greatly. They could fend for themselves better, and she was able to play with them more, instead of directing them according to her whims.[/quote]
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