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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Could it be that he's anxious about the baby coming and trying to escape that reality? 
Did you guys make a plan for how your maternity leave will go and who will take care of what? Hell really need to be there to take care of everything else while you concentrate on the baby. 
Can you set aside some time and ask him to as well to have a conversation about this? You can put it on his schedule and fit it into his studying. I think it's silly to pander to him in your state but you have to do what you have to do to love forward. 
These are the last quiet months you'll have to yourselves for a long long time. 
Good luck. [/quote]

Honestly I think he's just a computer nerd. I know he's super excited about the baby . I'm trying not to upset him too much because he's very close to finishing his PhD.  [/quote]

Sure. Only you know him that well. Was he like this before the phd? I know plenty of computer nerds and some play video games and ignore their families and some are super super involved with everything and are great fathers and husbands and did so much for their wives when they're were pregnant and with newborns. 
When is he supposed to be done? What's the plan after? Working away from home will be good but you need to talk about what happens when he is hole so he's not just going back to his computer as soon as he gets in. [/quote]

This is a hard question because there's never been a point that he wasn't pursuing a degree. I do NOT want him to work from home once he gets a job . He will finish in May.

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