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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is a super common abusive parent tactic. Give you money, control how you use it, and then use it to guilt and manipulate you. If I was you I'd tell them "we are going to use the money to invest in DS's future" and then cut them off. But that's just me.... you definitely need to follow your DH's lead since they're his parents. Sorry you're dealing with this :( [/quote] + 1,000,000 Don't give it back. They will just use it to manipulate you more in the future. Can you move? They sound awful. If not - answer the phone and the door a lot less [/quote] NP here. I did not speak to MIL for the first 8 years we were married. When we were going to start a family, we moved 2500 miles away. It saved our marriage. [/quote]
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