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[quote=Anonymous]So I had a conversation with DH about this complain. I basically said "I understand it is frustrated for you when my cousins don't stick with their plan. I already told them that you don't like the last minute changing plan. There is nothing else I can do about it. If they change the plan and affect our plan then it is fair that we will not go but if it doesn't and you don't want to go then I will go without you. I did my part. Now I don't want to hear your complain about this anymore. It makes me feel terrible." He replied "I don't care of them anymore. I will make our plan without consider them because I can predict almost every time they want to get together (Christmas, New Year, kids birthday, long weekend) and I have putting a side the time waiting for them to tell us the plan. I hate to do this to family"
Now that I feel bad because I feel like he will purposely plan something on those days so he won't have us go see my family. My husband is pretty good of making me feel bad but he refuses hat because he didn't say it, I am just making assumption. Having a conversation about some issue with my husband never ends with good feeling. I'm so sick of this but if I stop communicating, it is going to be ended in divorcing.

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