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[quote=Anonymous]I understand both sides of the situation.  On the one hand op... you ARE making a judgment about the quality of the public school.  You have to own that.  On the other hand, everyone gets to decide what they want for their own kids... some are willing to pay extra for education and some are not.  Both are o.k. choices.

I understand your situation b/c we are making plans to sell our house and move to a different public school zone.  Obviously, when we announce the move/plans, people will realize that we think the local school isn't good enough ... while they are still planning to send their kids there (some wish they weren't and some think it's just fine).  Sometimes people ask about your decision b/c they wonder what you know that they don't (about the local public ... I've asked people that before when I heard they were moving to private).  Sometimes, like you experienced, they just think you are crazy and trying to waste your money.

All I can say is that when you are convinced what you are doing is the right thing -- i.e. the path that will allow you to sleep well at night -- then you just stay strong to that.  As to what you say to other people... "we really love the curriculum/vibe/energy/etc. at ____ and we wanted to give it a try."  Focus on what you like about the new plan rather than what's wrong with the public school.  (For us, we are going to focus on saying we want to shorten the commute and try not to dwell on the school deficiencies where we are.)[/quote]

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