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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am afraid I did... Not completely ready to give up, I am still hoping that the lack of desire is linked to the fact that we have 2 kids under 3, but if I am honest even before the kids it wasn't great: not passionate enough and not enough in command for my taste (I like rough sex, dirty talk, I like to give BJ, would like to try anal etc.. He likes vanilla sex)

His go to move was (and still is) morning sex+basic spoon position, which I enjoy, but now I realize how lazy it is. Basically using his morning wood as a crutch and not a lot of efforts :(.

This is one of my resolution of 2016, seriously address the elephant in the room. Add therapy if needed. I don't want to be in a boring sexless marriage at 35... Or I will ask for a hall pass damn it[/quote]

And I will add, to fully respond to the question: I used to be more tolerant given that I don't have the highest sex drive in the world either (twice a week would probably be my ideal), but now I am frustrated, I actually masturbate almost every day when he is in the shower and I find absolutely ridiculous that a youngish couple has reached that stage ... (And FWIW we are both in ok shape, not overweight, taking care of ourselves etc, he says he is attracted to me but just exhausted) [/quote]

Were you intimate before marriage? If so, what did you think would change afterwards? Or, was the clock ticking and you said fuck it?[/quote]

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