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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It would be a serious stretch. And any hope of meaningful saving for college, retirement, etc... would go out the window. But I feel like that's obvious and I can't point it out in any way that doesn't sound high and mighty. [/quote] Just say it. "I will support whatever decision you make. I love you and Chloe and am concerned about both your futures if you stretch your finances to accommodate a second child. Your ability to save for retirement and Chloe's college education. It's a big undertaking." [/quote] +1 Tell her it's her decision and you will support her, but that you are concerned about the financial consequences. [/quote]
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