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[quote=Anonymous]I was in a similar situation and felt the same way. My feelings were exacerbated by the fact that my spouse had never been good about supporting me when I was sick or stressed. The whole Love Languages thing is cheesy, but also makes sense as a way to frame the issue with your DH. [b] Not, [/b]"you didn't put me first when I was sick and scared, so you're a jerk" but "this is something that may not matter a lot to you, but is very important to me. When you do [examples] I feel loved, when you do [examples] I feel abandoned." I am pretty low-maintenance in relationships-I don't care about presents, I don't need compliments, but when I'm on hospital bedrest, scared out of my mind, I need my partner to show up, act sympathetic, and bring gingerale.[/quote]
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