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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think it's lovely that your stepsister asked you to be a bridesmaid, and I think you should try to do it if you can.  Like you said, it's an unexpected honor, and that means it could be an opportunity for you two to get closer in this next phase of your lives.  As your parents age, you might find comfort in being more significant parts of each other's lives.

Unless she is a demanding Bridezilla of some sort, I would encourage you to ask her what her expectations are in terms of the kind of support you can give.  And I'd be blunt and just say, "I am so honored that you would include me in your wedding party and I want to be there for you and be supportive.  With the baby and working full time, our budget is fairly tight, so I know I wouldn't be able to travel to you for a shower or a bachelorette party.  Would it be okay if my role is just limited to the weekend of the wedding itself?  And will children be welcome at the ceremony and reception, because I'll need to bring the baby, of course."

Your DD, at 15 months, may be a wonderful addition to the party (assuming they welcome kids).  Assuming your mom will be there as well, couldn't she watch your DD while you stand up during the ceremony and during photos?  After that, you should be free to watch her as needed.[/quote]

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