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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP, this is OP, $ isn't a factor but we don't pay for my in-laws. All I was saying was he financially supports them, and so MIL keeps him on her good side. She tolerates his children and treats them lovingly. I don't think she's ever held my son (live in the same city). They are like strangers. However will never put that sons children down. I think k she resents my DH bc never financially supported them. Both sons are financially the same. That has caused some of the dynamic. The woman has never worked a day in her life and is physically able. We believe if she needs an extra $1000./month work. [/quote] Sounds like BIL and MIL are angry that you and DH aren't stepping up to the plate financially to support MIL. BIL is taking it out on your kids. I am not saying that you should be supporting MIL financially but expressing the underlying dynamic. [/quote]
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