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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Our house is such a mess that we can't even have a maid service come in!! There's junk all over the floors and every surface in every room. There are unfinished projects everywhere. I start them, buy the materials, get out the tools, and then DH watches TV or reads a book or says he's too tired, and that's the end of it. I just found black mold growing on the wallpaper backing in the kids' bathroom that DH was supposed to remove six months ago! It's a messy, tedious job that he doesn't want to do! So he always finds other things to do, does the laundry, washes the dishes and says he's too busy, too stretched to do any of these household jobs!!! And no, we don't have the money for a maid, DH says. Well, I've tasked myself with getting the crap cleaned up enough so we can have a maid. The dirt is killing me, killing our kids, all of whom have allergies. Is this grounds for divorce?? I'm thinking about it....[/quote]

Get a trash bag. Clear out your house. You have too much stuff. Find a handyman. Take care of it yourself. But get the KonMari book and just go to town. You are choosing to live with this.

Consider yourself a single mother, with the bonus of some sex and a lower cost of living than if you were single. [/quote]

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