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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a DW and I am the only one to initiate.[/quote]

Do you do most of the "work" too?

Genuinely curious. I am guessing the initiating partner does most of the thrusting/riding/rocking/etc......[/quote]

I'm a DH, do most of the initiating, and do about 95% of the "work." [/quote]

LOL. I hear you, which is why I seldom initiate. I find that when DW initiates she's much more engaged in trying to have a satisfying experience. When I initiate I more likely to get the passive "hurry up and be done with it" routine. That's not particularly enjoyable.[/quote]

Ha - another DH here. I could have written that.  She rarely initiates but when she does its awesome![/quote]

I agree with this -- unfortunately if I wait for her to initiate, we'd be on the once every two month plan. (Currently we've gone 5 weeks without and that stretch includes me unsuccessfully attempting to initiate twice.) [/quote]

I guess it depends on whether your DW is into it when she's not the one who initiates. Yeah, waiting for DW to initiate can result in some extended dry spells, but honestly after 20 years I'll take the dry spell over a partner who is disengaged to the point that you can almost hear her asking, "are you almost finished? I have things to do."

The mercy encounter is ultimately humiliating. No thanks.[/quote]

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