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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH here. I do not care to always give my wife a moment by moment itinerary, like I am a child, but she always knows my basic plans. If asked I don't hesitate to tell her. I think he is either up to no good or he sees you as a nag and is exercising his independence from you.[/quote] This is really the crux of it ... For three decades I was not a nag and only found out about lies when his alibi accidently gave hi up or he locked his keys in the car or such. Then I found out two years ago he was having an affair. Now I struggle with trying not to be a nag but at the same time do not trust him at all. And when I act on that distrust I confirm that he is still being untruthful, even if it is not female related. It is very circular. I am not feeling very comfortable with my own actions nor with his.[/quote]
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