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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Please don't bring your kids - from someone sitting there at my most reflective time on what's missing in my life, please for the love of god give me that moment of peace in my day.

I know and respect that you have your own challenges.  I know life doesn't stop.  I just ask that for all the women sitting there trying to swallow their bitterness that they're going through another f-ing cycle, that they don't have any children yet have to be sympathetic to their co-workers kid isn't sleeping through the night yet, that they're getting up early to drive out of their way to have blood draws and the US shoved up their vagina before putting on their game face for work....give them that moment of help like SG asks you to.[/quote]

Based on her prior posts, the OP of this post is likely to forego attempts to have a second child based on this concern.  If you had to really say, don't have another kid because it makes me uncomfortable even though you're trying everything to prevent making me uncomfortable, would you?

I was incredibly bitter for a LONG time when IVF didn't work for me, but I ultimately learned that I had to be accountable for my own reactions to things.  The world is unfair, IF is unfair, and there is enough suck to go around, but being bitter about the fact that a child was in the waiting room or being snuck in the back, that my coworkers loved their children, or that I had access to incredible medical care instead of being deemed "barren" and hopeless doesn't help anyone.[/quote]

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