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Reply to "If you got engaged after living together for a long time"
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[quote=Anonymous]If you two are already in your 40s and you want kids, then you need to start trying now...not after a wedding. Honestly, it sounds like you two might not be on the same page. Most couples discuss marriage before getting engaged, and most couples discuss when to start a family. It sounds like he threw you a curveball, and perhaps you two aren't on the same page. If I were the OP, I'd want to know the following: 1. Why did you propose now? 2. Are you hoping to have a baby? If he wants a baby, then the OP should be fully on board to start trying now--with the recognition that it might take fertility treatment or ultimately adoption to start a family in your 40s. [/quote]
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