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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well, I guess I have my answer then. He's not being unfair, and apparently I am.[/quote]

Not necessarily. Is this really about this specific question or do you sense a general lack of intimacy (not just physical) in the relationship? If it's the former, then yes, let it go, if the latter then you need to think more about how well suited you are to each other.

I have always discussed sexual history and first times with previous partners, not even in a "let's exchange medical histories" way but in a casual, swapping stories and getting to know each other sort of way. If someone really didn't want to share or seemed awkward about the question I would drop it as an isolated instance. BUT, if it seemed more a pattern of a greater lack of intimacy and unwillingness to open up about who he is I would consider breaking up because I know myself, my needs, and that such a person would not be a good match for me. Not saying there's anything wrong with it, just that we would not make a good couple. [/quote]

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