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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People are just clueless. It sucks. I "grew apart" from different friends throughout my 30s as they had kids. I had a stillbirth end of a pregnancy mid/late 30s - could never have kids on my own due to underlying health problems -- and people STILL people talk about how easily they got pregnant & had kids in their 40s around me. The only thing I tell myself is 'it's not about you' - they are telling the story to reassure themselves about their own life situation and choices. [/quote] +1. I know this isn't the same as infertility but I have an autistic son. Everyone who knows us is aware of this. However, that doesn't stop people from bragging about their children's successes to me, things my son will never do. It burns and I can't see how people wouldn't understand that, but they obviously don't.[/quote]
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