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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Finding out that my ex was having affairs/seeing escorts made it pretty damn easy for me to pack my bags and leave.  The hardest part was telling our kids.  That part made me really sad, but four years later -- they are doing fine.

Honestly, for me, the hardest part was the financial insecurity.  I knew deep down though, that I could make it on my own if I got zero child support and alimony.  I would have had to leave the DC area and find a place with a substantially lower cost of living and change a lot of things in my life.  But that would better than staying in my sham of a marriage.

In a weird way, finding out about the cheating was a gift to me.  I would have never broken up my family just because I was unhappy in my marriage, [b]but he put my life, his life and the well-being of the kids in jeopardy by having unprotected sex with so many women[/b].[/quote]

I'm actually not sure I agree with that. I wouldn't stay married to a man who did that to me either, so I'm not blaming you. I guess I just don't think you have to justify yourself by saying you and your kids were in some kind of serious risk due to your husband's promiscuity. Men have been promiscuous since the beginning of time.

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