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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm an Indian American woman who was raised by really traditional and conservative Indian parents. At 24, I am now almost exclusively attracted to blonde super preppy Americana boys. A part of it feels natural; I went to an all white high school. The other feels strange. Why don't I want to date Indian guys? I'm so confused! [/quote] OP you sound like me at that age only I'm AA. when I was older ( 30) I discovered my preference was because like you I had come of age surrounded by white males, the only AA males were related to me. I just didn't see my own as something to see as attractive as a potential partner. Does that make sense? Anyway once I recognized that it helped me broaden my horizons, and if I'm to be 100% I am no longer attracted to those race which is ok with me, given this country's current climate I want a husband who understands how it is to the core without me needing to teach him, but that' s a different conversation.[/quote]
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