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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here...to the PP, thank you for so much insight.  I have shown him what I posted and he has read all the responses.  He agrees with the assessments that it will be a difficult path forward and that he needs to start somewhere.  He has already made an appointment to see a counselor and see what else he can do.   This is really difficult because we have been together for most of our adult lives and I have definitely seen a lot of improvement in him over the years. We have been through so much together and next week is our 10 year wedding anniversary.  When we first met he had issues empathizing with others.  He said back than that wanted to be a robot.  Now looking back it was and probably is still PTSD.  [b]The illegal stuff was over a decade ago and he has not looked at that stuff or had the impulse to look at that stuff since.  The questionable things is not about sexual attraction to those things but his need to do something wrong when he is under pressure (kind of like a child rebelling)[/b].  I do believe he is addicted to porn whether or not he looks at disturbing porn.

I can't really leave the area because of my job.  I have a good career that will support myself and the kids.  He offered to give most of his earnings to us if we do separate so that the kids can live good lives.     [/quote]

I don't know how you could possibly buy that explanation. Have you ever seen children being raped? It would make any halfway normal person cry. [/quote]

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