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[quote=Anonymous]OP here.  Thanks for all the suggestions. I am still trying to make some decisions (i.e. separate before or after I give birth).  DH recognizes he has an issue and that he will go to counseling no matter what.  He said he was abused as a child and that he should have gone to counseling when he was much younger but he did not see it as an issue back than.  His family doesn't believe in counseling so when he developed anger issues when he was in his teens his parents did not take him to counseling.  His parents still have issues (emotional abusive relationship) and they still refuse to go to counseling.  One thing that makes it hard for me to cut him off completely is that he is a great father and he has been a lot more responsible than he used to be.  I also know that he will never hurt our kids or any other kids.  We have been in the best of spots lately because of this rough pregnancy and we both have been very snippy at each other.  However, the porn addiction is an underlying issue that won't go away by itself and not the result of us being snippy at each other.  We both need therapy to get through this.  It is just really hard when I am dealing with a hard pregnancy on top of everything.  [/quote]

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