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[quote=Anonymous]Yes, I agree totally. She is renting a lot of space in your head and this is unhealthy for both of you.

After a break-up, it is never a good idea to remain "friends." At first. Both parties need to take time to properly grieve their losses, heal and eventually move on with their lives.

To remain in contact after the separation is just clueless. And to sleep with each other at the same time is just asking for trouble. As your post clearly illustrates.

I know it is one of life's toughest challenges, but make a vow to yourself NOW that from today forward, you will not subject your heart to any more hurt. That you will have self-respect and dignity for yourself and that you are much better than this.

Do not contact her again. Even if you have to leave a post-it on your phone, do so. Do not answer her if she calls, best thing is to block her from contacting you. Facebook, e-mail, everything, etc.

Try to surround yourself with healthy relationships and avoid anything toxic. Find a new focus for yourself. Meet new people. Engage in a new or favorite hobby. Take a class. Volunteer. Anything but her.

You got this.[/quote]

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