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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had a surgery that left me disfigured/scarred. It's not something that is obvious unless I take off my clothes. It's been years, but it's kept me from being in a relationship. I don't think I could bear the rejection or seeing disgust on a man's face. I prided myself on my looks prior to this and I know how visual men are. How can I bring something like this up and when or do I just ignore it and say nothing. Whenever I'm approached by a man I totally shut him down because I think to myself he wouldn't be interested in me if he knew what I really look like. It makes me feel totally unlovable and I don't really know why.[/quote]

OP:  You need to date men who are also disfigured/scarred and then it won't be an issue.

I'll bet there are a lot of perfectly fine men such as Iraqi war veterans who are amputees or otherwise disfigured but are nice men deserving of relationships who would have absolutely no issues dating you.

Oh wait you want to date a handsome man, don't you?

A disfigured/scarred man is not good enough for you, is he?[/quote]

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