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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Appreciate the feedback! But just to clarify, I only have one baby. I came on DCUM because while my mom was over my husband did not complain one bit (I admit, he's a better person than I am), and I just feel like I can't do it to people that do mean well and are being helpful. 
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I'm sure your DH  appreciates this,
You'll be fine. Think of some ways your MIL can help out without sounding like you are bossing her around or being condescending or passive agressive. Maybe you can suggest an activity she can do with the one who has to be at home. I imagine he is probably bored. Is MIL a  good story teller?
Every now in then plop the baby in MIL's lap or ask him to feed him.
Could you say to her I need 20 minutes to shower and pass the baby off to her. When she does do something helpful make a huge deal out of it.
Try to  assume the best. This is what I do with my MIL and my relationship with her has improved, and visits aren't so stressful.
Hang in there before you know it this will all be a distant memory.[/quote]

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