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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry if I'm asking questions that are too personal. My deal is this: I have many and large fibroids that are now starting to interfere with my life. I had a Mirena that kept things under control for several years, but it migrated out of place, and had to be removed via guided ultrasound. It wasn't a pleasant experience AT ALL (took them a few tries), and the doctor almost had to quit and remove it surgically. They don't think they can get another one in due to the position of my fibroids, and then the chances are good that the same thing would happen. After removing the Mirena, the doctor said she thinks I should consider a hysterectomy, since I'm not going to have any more children (I'm 43). I have fairly bad symptoms - lots of pressure in my abdomen, it effects my ability to urinate freely sometimes, I have back pain, cramps, and HEAVY bleeding during my very loooooong periods. I look like I'm 5 months pregnant about 1.5-2 weeks out of each month. My husband of all people wants me to consider a hysterectomy, because then it would be "once and done". I'm worried about early menopause and side effects on sexual enjoyment. Plus just the silly "emotional tears" of knowing my uterus is gone, which is....silly. The doctor said she could try ablation too, but wasn't sure of the effectiveness in my situation. Do you know if there are message boards anywhere for women who have had a hysterectomy and who discuss the recovery, side effects, etc? I know there is medical literature both for and against supra cervical hysterectomy....just might be good to hear from women who have been through it.[/quote] I'm the PP with the single incision laprascopic hyster. It sounds like you are really suffering. I know you are probably used to all of this since it probably took some time to get to this point. But, as someone who as been through the hyster. -- I think you should give it some very solid consideration. I didn't have as many pains/effects as you -- for me it was just ridiculous heavy bleeding that would come on in a flash at times. Other times it was sustained with a super tampon and super pad getting soaked in an hour or two. Staining my pants, having to rush home from doing errands b/c of a gush. That kind of thing. I was shocked when the gyn suggested hyster -- "isn't there something less serious?" I'm too young! I was only 42. But, I had two consultations with gyn surgeons (not a regular gyn who does the occasional hyster). And over a couple of months (soaking and gushing), I decided to do it. They did not suggestion ablation b/c it would need to be re-done and I'd still have to take BC pills or use some kind of BC. BC pills for 20 yrs. are probably partly to blame for my fibroid in the first place. So, I didn't want to keep taking the pills. They said "hyster is the only 100% solution." So, after I settled with it for awhile, I got the courage to do it. It really wasn't too bad. I had read on the internet of a woman who did outpatient surgery for it and I intended to be like her -- I hate staying in hospitals b/c it is so freaking noisy. I can't get any sleep. Well, I can say that you should plan on staying overnight. The movable propped up bed is kind of important b/c you dont have any abdominal muscles to help you sit up (after the surgery). The surgery itself was no problem. Afterward, I actually felt better than after childbirth (at least in the private parts). But, make no mistake, there will be internal swelling for 7-10 days. Your shoulder blade will hurt b/c of the pressure from the swelling pushing on your organs. It feels like a butcher knife in your back. That was probably the worst pain. I can't take oxycontin or the like b/c it makes me nauseous, so I got by on extra strength Tylenol. You will move slowly for a week. I did slowly walk the kids to school on the 4th day. If you work, you really should take a week off. You might be able to do a little emailing or internet work for two hours a day during that week, but you will still be low energy for 10 days. Honestly, I'm glad I did it and I haven't had one negative effect since! Love not having to mess with any of that for the last (almost) 4 yrs. FREEDOM![/quote]
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